In recent years, manydating shows appear in television, such as “If you are the one” 、“We are dating” . As the increasing of the audiences rating, these programs have attacked huge attention. Some guests in the shows put forward stand-out points, the bold remarkswidely circulated and focused people’s attention on the Internet, even though the controversial topics make enough ratings for the programs but it also bring countless criticism. Therefore, some people think the programs should be banned from designing promote negative values among urban Chinese youth. Others thinkthis kind of program solve some people's marriage, bring joy to people. In my opinion, I think NBB should release aseries of rules for the Dating shows.

近幾年，電視出現很多相親節目，像最近很紅的非誠勿擾，我們約會吧。隨著這些節目收視率的增高，關注的人變得越來越多。隨之而來節目中出現的各類嘉賓，各種出位大膽的言論在網絡上迅速流傳，成為人們關注的焦點。飽受爭議的話題為節目賺足了收視率，也惹來無數非議。因此有人認為這類節目給在中國城市年輕人中推銷負面的價值觀，應該被禁止 另一些人認為這類節目解決了部分人的人生大事，給人們帶來歡樂。我認為國家廣電局因針對相親節目發布一系列嚴厲的新規定。

Hit shows attract millions of viewers, butthe value for supremacy worship of money, hedonism would mislead young peoplewho haven’t owned correctly judged ability, and it will be harmful to the moralfabric of society. But for a small part of high-profile young women, love meansfigure. A potential suitor may have a sense of humor or good looks, but thereal point is that he must have an apartment, as well as how big the flat is, besides, considerable deposit is necessary, In thedating shows “if you are the one”, a girl named Manuo, arrogantly refused a male’srequest of taking her out by bicycle, and said "I'd rather cry in a BMWthan smile in your bike.”

相親節目吸引了成百萬的觀眾，但是拜金、享樂主義至上的價值言論對青少年在內的一些還沒有擁有正確判斷能力的觀眾具有很大的誤導作用，有害于社會道德風氣。對于一小部分優秀年輕女性來說，真愛的全部意義在于數字。一個潛在的追求者可以擁有幽默感或英俊的長相，但真正管事的是他是否有一套公寓，還有它是多少平米,另外可觀的銀行存款是必須的。在相親節目非誠勿擾上，一個女孩叫馬諾，她傲慢地拒絕了一個男性競爭者用自行車載她出去的請求,并稱，“我寧愿在寶馬車里哭，也不愿在你自行車的后座笑。”

Although there aresome dissenting voices, but the high ratings also reflect the shows’ popularity.It plays a positive role for the problem of older young men and women’smarriage .Elders are very supported it. There is a saying goes, “A threeunfilial ,without issue.” it’s not easy for Parents to bring children up, but whenit comes time to get marriage ,children don’t have objects, parents would bevery worried.

雖然相親節目有一些反對的聲音，但是他的高收視率也說明他很受歡迎。它對解決大齡青年男女的婚戀問題起了一定的積極作用。尤其長輩們很支持它。中國有句古話“不孝有三��無后為大。父母好不容易把孩子拉扯長大，但是到了結婚的的年齡，孩子卻沒有對象，他們會很著急。